Oh my gosh, phbear, that would have knocked me to the ground with anger and hurt. I am so very sorry!! What a loser he is, so pathetic. I can't believe he did that, allowed that, and welcomed it. He is disgusting.
I would have taken more things from the home.
Hugs phbear. Big ones.
Please don't fall into a new relationship just yet. Enjoy it, just don't get lost!