Okay...I have to admit that I my PMA has been based upon H seeing the severity of HIS decision with the delivery of my Answer (and it's denials).

H will lose a lot if he pursues this. I think is it INSANE to cause this destruction when H and have always got along. But, one thing, I want my L to impress the fact that this is H's decision.

Don't L's counsel on consequences if H pursues????

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home