Guess I'm a bit confused on your sitch. Last I heard, your wife was cavorting around with OM, leaving used condoms in the trash for you to find.
It was my understanding that you were going to make a stand here... detach from her and go dark. Tell her clearly that you won't be around her if she is still with OM.
Yet now you are going on a date with wife? What's up? Did she suddenly renounce OM and I missed it?
Bringing roses to dates is not a recommended way to detach.
My thread, Carpe Diem #4 Orig Thread: Carpe Diem #1
