Personally Garry I think you should go with the flow on this. She's pursuing you to some degree and I DO NOT think that you need to go all dark and mysterious on her. What you did was fine. Keep accepting when she asks if you want to do things. Keep being a loving guy. The affair is over and she's chasing...there is no cake eating involved. This is what people do when they are interested.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
