simple well written gave them to him in writing boundaries, with a commitment to work to save us, if he would follow them. happy bday me, he wont, and will go alone to his sons bday party thurs at ow request. that was a boundary, ANYTHING that included her, he had to take someone I trust with him, he said f you, and told me it couldnt be me at her rules, and the only thing that matters this week is his son.
With those boundaries were the consequences clearly lined out? Darlin' its time to take care of you. You can't choose for him, however you can hold him to the consequences of his choices. I'm not the one to follow about boundary setting, but you have enough on your plate without assuming the responsibility for his poor choices. Nothing has to be decided today other than what is best for you and your kids. Be the best BG you can and give the rest to God for right now. I know this doesn't help, but you can't take this on as well. Try and enjoy your birthday and I think I found you in the Alt. Universe...my name is different (long story).
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
