take a look at this site http://groups.msn.com/IraqWarVeterans/ptsdiraq.msnw. You might find it helpful. Unfortunately this is something he will have to work through himself and all you can do is try and stand still in the eye of the storm. Interesting that he did go for C and typical that he said it didn't help. That's what my H said when he saw a psychiatrist who specialises in PTSD! Whatever he says I am sure it did help somewhere deep down. I kept in touch with H all the way through. We had one period when I took eldest D on holiday for 10 days and he wouldn't speak to me. It turned out he had misunderstood something his Sols had said and thought it had come from me and also I think he was somewhat peeved that I had gone away!! There were also times when I stood firm and told him not to come round or contact me because he had been so nasty. These did not last long probably a day before he would contact me. I know how hard this is for you but you are doing great. Hang on in there.
