I think the fact that your W broke off the engagement at one point suggests that she did really love you and wasn't just in it for the green card. She was ready to walk without the card.
You said that you would get angry and use bad language. What exactly does that mean? Did you call her names? Or say FU? If so, that is not merely "bad language" it is verbal abuse.
It is not unusual for a woman to try to communicate via email, especially if she fears your anger and/or if she doesn't feel like she is being heard. She may have hoped that putting it in writing would help communication.
Originally Posted By: john95
Also another thing that frustrates me and all you WAW should take into consideration is that when husband is saying he is doing these things don't still blow him off and get upset if he gets upset that u don't show any appreciation. [emphasis added]
Okay, do you realize that you are telling WAW's what they "should" take into consideration and telling them what they shouldn't feel - don't get upset - even though you yourself are upset? What if she were to tell you to not get upset if you don't feel appreciated?
