Hi glamgirl, Thank you for your post. Yes the anger creeps in occasionally. I am angry about H's behaviour and that he messed up our good lives. But obviously, he thought his life was not so good! I must admit however, my anger does not last very long. I am usually more sad than angry.
Hi nlt, Thanks for your wishes and your kind words. - I had quite a good week-end.
Strangely enough, I have forgiven H a long time ago that he left me and had OW. I also hardly ever think of him with OW. I usually picture him alone or with me. But I have trouble forgiving him completely for being nasty to me.
Hi Snodderly, Thanks for your post. At least H does not ruin my days anymore.
Have a lovely week.
Hi MWG, Thank you for thinking of me and your encouraging words. I have enjoyed a lot of my activities lately.
Last Friday I had a good time at the club's Christmas party. I met another nice lady I exchanged addresses with. She likes music and hopefully, she might come to some concerts with me.
H sent me a FRIENDLY e-mail asking me for some info. He also wrote that his health is good again and that he is not grumpy anymore! He also sent me his best wishes! I sent him the requested info.
He then returned another friendly e-mail and mentioned he heard that I wanted to go to the place for winter where we had our apartment. He thought it was not a bad idea and it is a shame that WE don't have a small place of our own to go to!!!!! He also said that we should stay friends as life is too short to be anything else! - Gee, what is going on in his mind?????