i cant get out of that trap.Its like she got me wrapped around her finger.I dont know what to do now.Havent talked to her since sunday.Afraid to make a mistake.
Total and 100% non-contact with her is the only way I was able to begin my detachment. Sure, it will likely push her further into the OM (or OW in your case) arms, but as long as they are involved in an active A, you are just spitting into the wind anyway. Worry a lot less about her, and a lot more about you.
Don't be rude, just don't be available. At all.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
