I'll have a lemon drop too! Make that two!

You've gotten the ball rolling....now just let things settle for a while. The holidays are stressful anyway, so I don't think you need to fan the flames just yet. Get through Christmas...be the pleasant, charming man we all know. Don't initiate any R talks...just be you! Let her see the changes in you....not just the room....but in you!

Hugs!

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally