Don't expect any Christmas miracles.....That only happens in the movies bro....
What you are going through isn't any tougher or easier than what I am. It is just different. There are ways of being yourself and making YOU a better person while living in a small confine with her. I have thoughts on this, and I can help you, but you really need to post more than you do so I can help. Or maybe make the journey that many of us have to the alternate universe. If you are interested. let me know or read BSC's thread....there are a lot of signs leading the way if you follow the trail.....Especially Lola's posts.....
Any expectations are generally a bad thing....either positive or negative...The positive are bad, but the negative can be just as deadly to us.....If you expect the worst.....then it will happen. So what if she files/moves out/ or whatever....can you forgive her? That is the question that you have to ask yourself.....If you can forgive her for whatever this brings? Then meet me on the flip side....
If you can't ? Then you answered your own question....
