I'm with ya. I have been practicing so I don't made demands or give ultimatum's. I figure I've got a number of days to perfect my speech.

It'll be all about how far it seems we've come, but there's still something holding us back, and what I think those things could be and how I NEED those things to happen to feel safe. If she's not willing to do those things, then I'll be saying something to the affect that in order to protect the feelings I still have left for her, that S16 and I need to move until she figures out what she wants.

How's that sound for an outline?

Ok, I've had enough work today

Talk to ya tomorrow. Have a good night.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.