well we will be meeting tonight. SS sent a letter to my house because they still have the old address. She still dosent want me top drop it off as " Iam still not comfortable haveing you know were I live". She keeps forgetting I am a cop and can easyly find her if I want, but I never have tried. It just seems so counter productive to play into any sterio type, but she wont give me even that much credit. O well its probably mecause the OM is there,
IO have given myself a limit Cat. by Jan I am done. a year of this is to long and we have made NO headway.she acts like I was a boyfriend she broke up with and not a husband. like I said before she has friends who dont even know she is M or infact EVER M. that just fills me with pity.