Forgive my ignorance if you've already posted this...but have you brought up DBing to your wife? did she refuse to read it or hear it?

I just really dug into the book myself and H will have nothing to do with it.

OH! I correct that statement..he skimmed through it to prove a point, because he was SURE it would state in there that I needed to have sex with him.

M: 42
H: 40
M: 15
T: 25
2 kids
me - AWAW