I agree. I would rather have it be a stranger. This is truly a double betrayal. I just can't understand how she could have done that. And certianly making no excuses for my H, but I was there and know how shell shocked he was. It is horrible, but it isn't totally uncommon. You are so fragile after you go thru a situation like that, I mean, think about it.
What type of a woman could do that to her girlfriend .... going thru breast cancer and having just spent months thinking that she was going to die? Bald and sick and radiated? Not much of a friend I think.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
