A family member ran into a friend of the Ws and got to talking. the friend indicated that she asked the W if we would get back together, she said no. My family member went into a meltdown, all upset. I calmed them down. they said they wanted to to tell me because I am still hoping for a happy outcome and it won't happen. I didn't really get into but indicated to this family member that action speaks louder than words. When she files ofr divorce, and the decree has been met, then its over. Telling this friend that we are going to get back togehter is the same as saying they made a mistake. So i calmed their fears. I feel good being able to say it, but once again her words ring. I know I am not supposed to believe anything she says, and I don't. This comment ws made a while ago, few weeks anyway. The firend did indicate that she didn't look good, she acted happy but they could tell it was an act. More confirmation.
Posting this because it bothered me. More because the family member was so distraught that they needed to tell me to stop hoping and kick her to the curb. Seem to be getting a lot of this since church on Sunday....
