Sometimes goodbye is a second chance

[phbear316]

Well did I get a slap in the face this am.

I was returning totes I borrowed to the house today

Well it did not take him long to replace me. Kids pictures are on the fridge, he went shopping bought a new tv, new rug, new kitchen stuff. Kids clothes in the basement. What gets me is she has her own house, so she came over with the kids sat, and they slept on the airmattress in the next room. wow

Then I went into the bedroom and saw her stuff on my dresser, and a note on the nightstand.

And he cleaned the house for her, the top of his nightstand and dresser were a disaster and I refused to clean or dust it, had to have a years worth of dust on it and I would not be the maid. Place is as clean as a whistle. Amazing

Someone told me she was at the house sat night. Took him one day to make herself comfortable. Well I hope they are and will be happy, they are sleeping in beds that were marital beds of others.

Like he is sleeping in her bed that she had with her ex, and she is sleeping in the marital bed he shared with me. WTF.

At least I did what i did on a brand new bed.

Anyway, i was angry, hurt, But I only let it get to me for a little while, my new friend was also very supportive when I told him.

Well, so this is how this is going to go..I need to face it and I am, and I let this pass, I willnot let it consume me or control me. We are done, there is nothing more, just papers to sign.

hugs
bear