Well good for you alex....trust me..the grab the butt approach and being smothering and disrespectful is NOT a big turn on - at least for me.
And trust me, I take no offense in the dense comment. Very much more polite than what is running through my mind.
After things like this happen, I can't fathom ever having my feelings return??? He has shown me over and over again some sides of him that I would NEVER be initially attracted to (25 years ago OR today)
And take no offense to this - I think your wife is being extremely selfish. Is she trying not to be 'The Bad Guy' here? is she waiting on you to decide, so she doesn't seem like the bad one in front of the kids?
