Feel real good right now. She is in my head, but I know that will most likely never change. I am calmer and in more control. MY D17 got hurt about 6 weeks ago and i was told her mother was taking her to the doctors for x-rays and to get checked out. Bruised ribs and collar bone. Wife couldn't keep the appointment so she cancelled w/o calling me to have me take her. D17 never said anything to me because she knew I would be mad at her mom. Well this morning she couldn't sit up w/o being in pain. I took her to the doc's and then for x-rays. fractured collar bone and one cracked rib. Fortunately the fracture will heal w/o issue. the cracked rib will be an issue forever. I know I have two. I am pissed that somthing this serious was not taken care of and the fact that she did not even consider having me take her when she couldn't make it. My D17 told me she had to cancel cause she couldn't get out of work. the appointment was on a Wednesday when she doesn't work and was 60 miles away at ther OMs. She didn't call me because she knew I would drive right past her work and see she wasn't there. Nice. Priorities skewed much?!
Anyway, she is OK and all is well. Some idiot "friend" of ours emailed me this morning saying a friend of a firend overheard OM a couple of months ago talking about hteir wedding. The email asked me if she has asked for a divorce because it sounds like they are making plans to get married. I blasted her for the email and told her not to bet the farm on her marrying him. I have now blocked her ass from emailing me anymore. You know, how many crosses I gotta bear anyway? Geez.
I am very excited about taking my D17 into boston, see the lights and decorations and lunch. she will definitely enjoy it. I did ask her if I have been pushing too hard. She said a little. Its like all you care about is how clean the house is, how clean my room is, how my grades are, where I am 24/7. It is what I thought. She also has been going toher mothers because she hates being home alone. Wife only works part time so when my D would get home from school, W was home soon after. She is starting to miss that. I will change my gym schedule to 8 at night so that we spend time toghethr when she is not at her moms. When she is, I wil go after work andf get it out of the way. BIL is out permanently. D17 is much calmer. I am much calmer and the W is out there...
Will bring up the Xmas decorations tonight for me and D17 to set up.
