Hey Lisa... So that is interesting, that he texted you Friday night and Saturday, also that he let you know he wasnt doing his 'usual' Friday night out with the aub/colleagues?? I wonder what happened on their holiday then (I know you are trying not to, but I am wondering!).
I was amazed that he not only got you a christmas present (!!?) but also that he told you.. as you do that to people you really care about, as you are a little excited abot what you bought them. Also, it implies he warned you in a way so as to get him one! A 180 would be, to not get him one!!! Let him give you his, but just say, wow, thanks! Ha, only kidding, I am sure you will want to get him something. It also means he is hoping or expecting to see you over the Christmas period, which is also interesting.
It is amazing that there is still so much contact and depth of emotion between you, despite the time that has elapsed since S. But then, people can reunite after 30 years and all the feelings are still there right..
So what was odd about his last email? That he told you he was by himself Saturday?
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread