Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

Just noodling. I think even a VERY low-libido'd person can sense when the sexual camel in you has run out of water, and needs re-filling.

I get what you're saying. But about me or her?

If it's me, you're right, that's why I wish the ML on vacation hadn't happened. I'd gone so long that I was past the point of NEEDING it.

If you mean her, she's NOT low libido by any stretch. Right up until I got the ILYB speech we were still ML 3 or more times a week. Now I could tell her heart wasn't quite in it like before and that made me worry, but I thought it was just a slump or stress from the move and the job she hates.

Am I close? Or did I totally miss what you're saying? Maybe you mean she wants to keep me where she has me and recognized that ML was a way to placate me for a while? If that's the case, it was a mistake on her part. It only raised (sorry for the pun) my expectations!