Super close to walking out

[AlexEN]

Peace,

She's just made up her mind and waiting for me to "give up" and then we'll get on with it. The OM (EA) claims not to have any "designs on her"... I think it's more to her than to him (unless they are both liars)...

With respect to your sitch, I can't fathom what he is trying to achieve. He needs the books more than you do. He doesn't seem to get that he has a role in all of this, too. Reading your description, and no offense to him, but the word "dense" comes to mind. I know that coming from a guy this is going to sound wierd, but sex is just sex -- without some emotion from both parties, what does he really get out of it? I may be being judgemental here, but he sounds completely self-absorbed and like he just doesn't get it. I'm waiting (perhaps in vain) for my wife to "want it" again, but I wouldn't ever try your husband's tactics as even as dense as I am, I know it would push her further and further away.

-AlexEN