Refuse To Lose, Part XI: Its My Time Now

[AliSuddenly]

...She began by telling me "I got asked out by another student today. That makes it now three students as well as two members of the faculty."

WTF? I said I knew who the faculty member was and then said "did you tell them you had a boyfriend?" She went on a bit about it and eventually said, "apparently, I'm just irresistable" to which I deadpanned "apparently".

...wow Rob, your W is um, a sadist?? a narcissist?? I am amazed that she said these things.. she is trying to effect you, or hook you in, or raise a reaction here. She just cant let it go can she? You'd think by deciding to D you and dating she would have moved on emotionally, but seems not really if she is still trying to engage in these power games with you.

I'm not sure what you can do.. listen and validate!?? Tell her to go to hell?? What do you think ?? Hope you are doing ok, you have been through a tough time. You can take the moral highground though and your W's conversation shows that she is not very emotionally together. Perhaps her ego has gotton out of control, or she needs the validation of men finding her attractive?? It is mean spirited of her to say these things to her recently D H. In fact its more than mean, its cruel? Taunting? Must make you sad, it made me sad to read. You are clearly the better man!

Al x