Hey Julia... good luck with it! I came back to post that I think Lisa made a really interesting point (which, yes I missed too!).. I was meaning that it wouldnt help your goal to make him fork out for bills.. but then Lisa made the interesting point that he does pay them and wants to. That shows taking care/concern for you? And I'm even more amazed that you now say that it was HIS idea all along! Still..like you say, might be good to raise it with him and offer to pay them yourself?
My ex never mentioned bills or offered to pay. He did dump a load of money into the joint account last Christmas and again in August. So like your ex paying the bills still.. whats that all about ? Guilt? Indecision? Kindess? I have no idea!!
Yes, seems he cant reply to the other email. Sigh, these WAS are a complex bunch!
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
