Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

Okay, completely confused here.

W disregards my request on Sunday to stop calling my 'house-mates' phone to tell the boys to go by her house and does so yet again.

My female friend made a very nice gesture and stopped by and dropped off some groceries i could not afford to by the other day when we were out shopping. Apparently this seems to spark a sense of jealousy or something to W as she calls me on her brother's phone (supposidly hers is broken) and begins another hour and half session of dragging out the dirty laundry all over again.

At this point I keep asking, what's the point in this? You're "engaged", you've filed, you're taking my kids, of which, you said yesterday you wanted to have them over tonight because you hadn't seen them all weekend, but yet instead of being with them you'd rather go round the same circle with me on the same old 'blame game' and now accuse me of having a "live-in girlfriend" but yet SHE is the one that HAS someone else in her life and DOES live with them? So what IF I did?

I don't know if she hung up or the phone died but the conversation was 'non-heated' as good be and as always netted no results.

I don't understand the point, she's checked out, we're in the final turn of the last lap of the race and I'm ten cars back, why start the fight?

Anyway, the "main" reason for the call was supposed to be about what would happen with the boys for the night, she said she wanted them to stay but would have to drop them off at 4am. I told her no way, it's a school night, be a parent, parents make sacrafices, much like I did this morning and came to work late so I could take care of them and see them off to school.

I don't know what happened over there but they were 'dumped' off at 9:30, my 10 yr old had urinated himself, and when they saw I had not put the left over dinner away they proceeded to dive in like a pack of starved animals. The whole purpose of them being there was FOR DINNER!

I am tempted to call her out on this, I really want to know what the hell happened over there. 10yr old says he had his coat on and didn't realize when he was using the bathroom before leaving that he didn't have his pants down all the way. That kid has been particular about anything on him since he was knee high to a squirrel. S@%t don't add up.

This is completely confusing now and comical that IF I did have something serious going on, what's the big deal? Why the jealousy over someone who just so happens to care does a unasked friendly deed and has kept me in in good company through a difficult financial crisis this weekend?