Hope I so understand how you feel about the family. SD asked me last night if my mom and dad knew. I said they know there is someone else but not to what extent. Just that he liked someone. I haven't told them he isn't living at home, and they no nothing of the affair. I know it will crush them if they knew what he was doing.
Hope remember you are not alone. We are here. We can run together, but I don't think Kel will let either of us do that. We better go somewhere warm!