How do I communicate with WAW who is "checked out"

[dday101798]

Mapquested it; it's 5-miles from me...

Will try to get there one Weds. I'll weat either a Patriots or Red Sox hat (originally from Beantown)...

Sounds cool, but regrets, this is a "bi-week" for me, with $0.27 left in my account til Friday, not in the budget. But any other time is cool too, they have specials Mon - thurs and the rest of the food is good and cheaap too

VS made some good points. Definately keep your cool, it's hard and we all slip up from time to time, but find what works to build a level communication with the W on her terms and stick with it. I do not make initial contact my WAW anymore. We're not in the best of positions right now as she's "engaged" to OM and getting her pro-bono lawyer next month and seemingly taking me to the cleaners, but yet last night still speands a hour and half dragging out the same old dirty laundry when there should be seemingly no point ot do so. So that tells me in her own way she's not done, just yet. So, hey, no matter how bad it looks, it's not over til it's over.

Hang in there.

dday