ok Hope, shred her and say whatever it is you need to. Yell, scream it at the top or your lungs. Make a hundred copies if you need to then when you are done, throw it all in the fire. Let it go. Focusing on her makes it easier not to be angry with H but he is the one you have to be mad at too. I know you have been. God I wish I had been this wise years ago. Nothing nasty to her in RL, you know that just makes you no better than her. But do it. Soon before you explode and say something you might regret.
As for the thank you, i'm glad you got it out. So she is a liar. You knew that already. Keep yelling at us until you get it all out. Still waiting for MT to do it. She is so calm. So nice. She will get there too. Or maybe she idd that before she came here, i don't know. Have a good day and smile.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.