BG HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRL. HOPE U HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY. MAY GOD BLESS U TODAY.
James
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
BG believe it or not this is the real world. Where else can you be this honest and not be told you are stupid?
Hey, you CAN do this. You WILL do this. It won't be easy, it will take time to know what this is, but you'll get there. BG is a survivor and a fighter. So my confidence in you is huge. And I hope it holds you up until you find it yourself.
Working today, but I'll try to pop in and out since i have my toy now. God I never thought I would like one of these. Just had to turn the mouse pad off. And it is gonna take a while to get used to Vista but... I Hate CHANGE sometimes. LOL.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
Hey Sis, Happy Birthday. Take care and have a great day.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
simple well written gave them to him in writing boundaries, with a commitment to work to save us, if he would follow them. happy bday me, he wont, and will go alone to his sons bday party thurs at ow request. that was a boundary, ANYTHING that included her, he had to take someone I trust with him, he said f you, and told me it couldnt be me at her rules, and the only thing that matters this week is his son.
if it was innocent with them he would have no prob taking someone with him.
i guess he just chose, and it breaks my heart, cause i was gonna fight as hard as i could. but not if he wont follow my boundaries, its been a week. he left the ball in my court to choose, and he actually did the choosing.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Ah, BG!!! Then, he's not the man we had hoped he was (at least not right now). Just hang in there! I know you hurt, and I know you were so hoping for better...he might still come around. But, start thinking about what you can do if he doesn't. You really have to figure out how to look out for you!
Love you!
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
