ITH - good to see you, I think you are quite right about me reflecting my frustration!
Ali - he emailed me yesterday afternoon about the estate agents for today! I think that is his rational about the mortage holiday but it is money that will come out of our equity at the end and realistically I would rather have it then -especially if we don't get such a good price for it. I am not making him pay half the bills, he has always wanted to pay half the bills. I think I have kept my self respect throughout this whole thing and it is something I am more than willing to discuss and bring up with him when we meet. Don't forget he has wanted to keep this status quo for a year and has been unwilling to talk to me at any point about this.
I don't think he can reply to the more personal one... I accept that.
I don't really want to send this email but I suppose I have to really. Sigh!