Thanks Kel. Good ideas. I can shred her at home. And I will. That has a lot more class than the nasty cards, letters and phone calls I keep dreaming of sending.
I also need to get this out....
Last January my H and I helped her H (at his request) plan a surprise 40th birthday party for her. This is the thank you that my H and I got from her:
Wow, where to ever begin & how to express how much I appreciate all that the two of you did to help with making my birthday an incredible experience. Saying thank you just does not seem like enough. You two have become very important to me & I can't tell you how much I valure your friendship. Hope, you are an amazing person who just awes me with your poise & grace. The positive attitude & strength you have displayed this past year was & is inspiring. You are a beautiful & classy person Hope & I am so glad that we have become friends. Thank you again to the two of you for everything and more important for just being yourselves, because that is what makes you special. Love Suzy.
Three weeks later she was f'ing my H.
I just don't understand how she can live with herself.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
