Originally Posted By: carpenter54
PDT

I have no real "control" over her actions....she is an adult...if this is how she wants to act....so be it.


No, you cannot control her actions. But you CAN control the consequences somewhat. I'm not seeing where there are any.

I did the "all-the-lights-out/house-locked-up-tight" thing exactly ONCE with my wife, when she stayed out past 1am on the 4th of July.

She never did it again.