I read on a lot of the threads of wives with WAHs how the H has all this "pain" that they need to work through. It got me wondering whether I'm different or if these women have the wrong impression based upon how they perceive things. So, I wanted to see what other guys on here thought.
For me, if things are good in the marriage, I'm fine with everything. I don't dwell on past slights or hurts. I don't think negatively of my wife, even if during an argument I do. I just don't get the sense that guys hold on this "pain" inside and then walk away, as the women on here seem to indicate. Based on looking at this site for three years now, I'd say that when the guy starts talking about all the wife's faults and wanting to leave, there is almost always some other woman in the wings that they are using for comparison. I doubt they are thinking about a fight from two years ago...but maybe it's just me that has a short memory.
So how about it guys? Do you hold on to old grudges/fights and eventually that will make you snap?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
