What do you mean he was never yours? You married him, right?
You can let him go. Let him be, leave him alone, no R talks, and since he works on your property, let him do his work while you do other things.
He is not far along enough to notice any real changes in my opinion.
It was not until 2008 where I noticed some changes in my H and we were able to talk and express our feelings even though he still lives elsewhere. With that said, it has been over three years since we have been able to do those things.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
