W got home sat morning at 7am from nite out with friends...of course I was up...I said nothing but "hello". I asked if she was going to MC with me...she said no. I have got "loving detachment" down pat....no harsh tones in my voice...no bad body language. Honestly I really didn't even "feel" bad when I saw her. About 8am I poked my head in her cave to say I was leaving to run some "errands" and go to MC solo at 10am. Recounted my weeks interactions with W...our Tuesday fight on my bday...the fact that she calls me alot to talk about little things....how W was concerned what I would do for thxgiving dinner....the childish text messages between W and OM...how W asked if I wanted glass of wine on Thursday...and then brought it to me on the couch. MC asked me again to not "push" things, legal or otherwise. Got home around 11:30...chatted with W a bit...we heated up leftover turkey and stuff for lunch and talked "normal" for about an hour. I went out around 4:30 to hang with family (FB friends can see the pics) got home around 11:30 because I had to work Sunday. Sunday
W calls me around 11:00am to see what time I will be off and discuss dinner plans. I tell her between 3&4...I get home...hit the shower...and we eat as a family. After dinner W and I work on some stuff for D12s murder mystery Bday party then decide to tackle some laundry folding and watch a movie...
Ws BFF and her sister were back in town off and on since Wednesday night again...she had commented to me the Ws "normal" actions and the wine thing were "wierd"...I just said yup. She told me W did NOT want to go out sat night...even though the kids were gone...because of what I would say about it...she was also worried I would drop the "bomb" on her about coming home at 7 on Saturday.
Monday
W emails me about her plans for the night....IC for her from 6 to 7...then a movie with her uncle after that. About 7:30 she sends me a picture of her uncle!! She is worried I don't "trust" her....duh!!! No biggie really...she was with him.... I have been treating my W like a "sister" lately.... That's it up until today....what do ya all think....gimmie some good input or questions....kinda bored today...
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
