Well, last night, before I got home, my wife placed an 11 minute phone call to the OM. This is what my life has come to--checking the phone records each day. I really hate this. I gave her all the trust in the world before our marital problems. Now, the trust is destroyed and I'm reduced to checking on her actions.
So now I have to confront her about what's going on with the OM, right? I have to find out if anything is still going on? Why is she still in contact with him?
Opinions? I'm starting to freak out a little.
Our reconciliation has been going well, at least that was my perception. She seemed happy to. So why is she still calling this guy?
I need an answer from her, right?
Please let me know what you think.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R
