Good news that he replied to your last e-mail, and also interesting- he obviously isn't in a place where he can handle the discussing the OW situation with you at all (or even acknowledge it). My H is the same and any oblique reference to it usually sends him into his cave, so it's good information to have.
Originally Posted By: JCJ
Hi H
How are you? Wow, things have stepped up a pace over the past couple of weeks. I really appreciate you taking the initiative, it is really helpful.
It'd be really good I think this would be a really good time for us to meet to discuss how we handle the house and bills. the options rather than one person proposing a solution that the other has to agree and it seems to take us forever by email. We could have a real brain-storming session and bash out all the possible options. Listen to me and all my management-speak!
Let me know when is convenient. Julia
P.S - Maple disgraced herself at the vet last night; she yowled the whole way through and has somehow broken her toe on her bad foot. How I don't know as she hasn't been out for 6 weeks!! The vet also said she had a bit of a flabby tummy but otherwise was a good weight and very healthy. Maybe I should get a cat lead and take her out - can you imagine!
I think it's really positive that he's just taken on sorting out the bills without discussing it with you in a way- I know his motivation is to save money, but he could have so easily just said he wasn't contributing to the bills any more. On some level, then, he's still trying to look after you. He's just got that bit hidden......
L. xx
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