Boy, you really do have a lot on your shoulders right now. Maybe since the focus has not been totally on Cathy, she has felt less pressure, and has been able to show you some kindness. SO, maybe the time away will be a good thing.
I just had an idea. Since you are out of the house, W can sleep in the master bedroom. This will give son time to adjust to sleeping ALONE. And then, when you come back, she should not go back into his room, because he needs to have his own personal space! Time to make the switch. No, passed time.
Your mom sounds like she's in a good place. That's great to hear.
I would have given $100 to see you outside running around with your birthday suit, then I would have taken a picture of you and sold it on the internet Just kidding doc... lol. I don't know why I said that LOL.
Anyways... I agree with sara... this has got to happen soon! she is just avoiding the whole situation.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I want to choose my battles right now. I can not put my finger on it but since I have "moved out" things are different. Anyway when dealing with the "kids" BOTH parents need to be on the same page. In a way it NEEDS to be us against them. Both parents need to back each other up. WE are not there yet. Ok so here I am...."sleeping elsewhere"... I have this "date" Saturday. I kind of feel like THIS date is now in my home turf. I really do not need her to go so there is NO pressure on me this time. Ya I know I went on the last “date" and just planned on having fun and I did but I did kind of need SOMEONE there. Not this time. There is a dance after the dinner AND I know the bartender... SO I don't need anyone....or should I say I could easily find someone to dance with if I needed too.
It's good to be KING...
Mom is doing well. I made sure everything was hooked up right this time.. Well I need to get some stuff done here and then I am going over my "wife’s house" for some home made turkey soup..
Later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hey Yoyo, Don’t know if I am in a "good" place but I am in a "different" place.. (At least right now). Again the "standard" I am tired of this sitch...is still there... The "one more day" is playing in the background...People in Rehab (drugs, alcohol..ect) always say.. One day at a time... Well one day at a time can really get irritating...one day at a time means no future beyond a day. I am sleeping better at my Mom's..Still strange waking up not at home. BUT..... And that's a big BUT.... I think Saturday’s date will be Different...Since we have not really been around each other much for a week..
Later Me...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I agree, I do think it will be different, absence makes the heart grow fonder... I know your tired, that's to be expected, the waiting I still think is the worst for the other S to own up and finally just come back to you, emotionally and physcially.
Sorry about the "other Comment"... just kiddin' around, I can be funny, at times...
yoyo.. I know im bad.. it's just, Doc left himself really open to that, I couldn't help it!!! LOL..
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
"Sorry about the "other Comment"... just kiddin' around, I can be funny, at times..."
Why are you sorry? I got a rise out of it...
Ok I talked to my Mom's doctor and she "might" be able to come home without any machines next week... He said she is doing great.. This would be really nice because her B-Day is the 12th of Dec. Other news... I picked up my Youngest D who lives in the next town with the BF that was shot... I took her to see my mom...On the ride back to her place..(Shed behind BF parent’s house) she told me that BF bought her something for her computer.. I asked where did he get the money? She said his mom was in a car accident and got some pain pill and he sold them..GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR WHAT A LOSER........ She then started telling me how she has been giving allot of thinking about leaving him. THEN she said it would be great if she and I got a place together.... Did not see w too much yesterday. I did swing by "her" house with D for a few minutes so D could visit with her brother and mom. After dropping off D at D's house I went shopping for some shoes.. Could not find any that I liked.. When I got back to town I went straight to my Mom's house and then called wife to tell her about my shoe ordeal.(will not get into it here but it was interesting) Anyway W asked what time was Dinner on Saturday.. I told her to look at the tickets they are by the phone. She then asked if she should call D to come over and watch our son or are we taking him to her Mom's.. I said I was thinking about her mom's.. She said fine. She then told me about a pennies store in the town I work in that has a good selection of shoes and I should go there. We also talked about D's BF and how while my D was working thanksgiving how he has XGF over his mom's house for dinner. W said she wished D would leave him.. He is a lieing,lazy,drug dealer. Then I added (sorry I had to do it) He is probably cheating on her.(Ya I know this statement was not called for). So after that phone call I cooked up a T.V Dinner and then went to see my Mom. Things were ok BIL showed up and we talked but then...... MY sister showed up...Now she has been working long hours and was tired but..My mom told her my D came to visit and the first thing my sister said was."Wow it only took her three weeks to come see you".. (Now you see my D does not drive and lives in the next town) My BIL told my W "you have only been her two minutes and you are already starting"... So as the conversation progressed by Sister Questioned me about why I removed the shower door and installed a curtain. I told her Mom wanted me too. My Mom then said she did not feel safe with the glass shower door.. There was more but I got tired of my sister Ragging on me (and my BIL so I know it was not just me)... I left and went home and e-mailed my wife to vent to her about my sister... No response as of this morning...
So that was my day...
Hope today is a little bit more relaxed..
Later Me
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
