You're a smart guy... that means your parents aren't stupid.. right? Are they infirm, incapable? Are they strong people with values? Do they have their own thoughts?
How did they feel about the card? What was their take on it?
That card is insulting to you, but it wasn't sent to you. Was the email where you were described as psychotic and dangerous sent to you? As tough as it is.. those things are none of your business. If your parents ask for your input that's one thing.
Maybe it's right to be vigilant and look at each action having a strategic meaning. For me though.. what other folks say about me is none of my business. What they say directly to me, is.
The action with the card is up to your mom and dad. If they want a relationship with the guy, it's their choice. And if their choice if it's polite, thanks but not thanks or whatever level of involvement they want.
You're Caleigh's daddy.. the best thing in the world.
Drop the rope and go fishing.
You're a good guy.
*hugs*
And about the drop off thing with the first wife... you didn't have control then, you won't have it now. Keep your expectations low about her behavior and your head high.
sorry kathleen..I don't agree with your post..very little of it.
I've dropped the rope..I do not attempt to maintain contact. I do not attempt to play games. It appears they do..
I'm not holding on...
and yep..I snooped in her f**king email..and I would do it again..because I was not attempting to save my marriage..
I was saving myself..
Like I said..
LINES IN THE SAND...
and I figure my mom made the card my business when she told me she got it..when she read it to me..
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 12/02/0801:33 PM.
