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Bill every time I think I have reached the point of letting him go, he does something to draw me back. I let him. And round and round we go.


someone HAS to break the cycle for him to move forward, i can with pretty much certainty say IT AINT GONNA BE HIM.....

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My H never was MINE. And IF he ever comes home, I want it to be for the RIGHT reasons, not out of guilt, or because of money, etc...This is was is pushing me to let go


except you have made it very plain you would take him back now unchanged

when you push him into these 'talks" he says what it takes to shut you up but at the same time never commiting to anything one way or the other....or covering his a$$

Nothing will change until you leave him alone in a very big way...you want so bad to believe he has changed, something is different.....every time a dimple is different you get your hopes up. you watching this man under a microscope....now c'mon did you really expect him to not go party after her he left????

Last edited by a new 2moro; 12/02/08 12:52 PM.

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest