I've been reading along with your sitch, but you've been getting such great advice that I haven't had anything to add.
The one thing that I would suggest in your message is not to say the following:
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I think this would be a really good time for us to meet to discuss the options rather than one person proposing a solution that the other has to agree and it seems to take us forever by email.
I think this sounds a bit accusatory and reflects your frustration. Perhaps you could keep the essence of the sentence, which is that you want to meet up to discuss, while softening it a bit. I say this because if he gets that you are frustrated, it may make it harder to get him to agree a meeting. If you took out the "rather than one person proposing a solution that the other has to agree" part, I think it would read better.
Like Ali I am glad that things are moving for you.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
