I have to agree with Sep that it's a very good sign that he accepted date night. If your H is anything like mine, chances are that the email/call threw him for a real loop, and he's once again questioning all of his assumptions and decisions.
IMO now that you have put yourself out there, it would be a good time to go back to the "basics" of DBing and hold off on R talks etc. You have made your position clear, so unfortunately it's now up to him to make the next move, or at least that's my take on it. If you can continue to show him how great it is to be with you, the things that you have to offer that this little 21 year old doesn't (and BTW you are gorgeous--saw your pictures on FB), chances are good that he will come around. I know the holidays are rough, but I think in some ways they may play in our favor. I don't think they want to be alone/lonely any more than we do, and they are a good time to be a bit sentimental...
Glad to hear that you are feeling a bit better!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
