I started the new job today..Yeay!!! I really like it so far. It's a very friendly environment and a lot less stress plus more money!! Woo Hoooo!!
Nothing major to update about the H, just random chit chatting back and forth and that's about it. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks. Baby steps...baby steps..right??
It gets frustrating at times but I do my best to look at the positives and realize how far we have come since the bomb was first dropped. So in time it will be fine and we will be back on the road and off this darn detour!!!
Your PMA puts me to shame. Your patience is simply amazing. I love how you are just so certain about things and you don't obsess over the details of how you are getting to the end goal, like some of us...(meaning me of course!)
When this is all done with, I am confident that your H will be amazed with what a strong and patient presence you have been in his life.
Do you have a solutions journal or anything like that to record your baby steps? I've been pretty remiss lately, but when I do fill in the goals achieved, it helps me to see where I've come from. I don't see your confidence wavering, but it still can be motivating!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
