Originally Posted By: Babygirl

thanks Kel. I cant wait to hear what you think. the boundaries are ok, need a real plan for it tho if i can make this work.



BG, What I think is that you were able to unload a little bit of how you feel and he was there, and listening and still wants to try.

You can make whatever choice, honey, but take your time. Do not make any choices while you are upset. And definitely consider talking to the doctor about something to help you sleep. I tell you from experience that I sleep better now because I did.

I think that he listened and he accepted blame is a good thing.

Can he change? I don't know. He will have to prove it to you.

I'm here if you need me. I am in the alt. universe, havent't found you yet.

KJ


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.