Thanks Snodderly...I hit a few good sales,but still much to do!

Upside - Of course I remember you! I am so happy you and H are in MC. It is a tough road, but worth it. I understand your envy and think it is normal. I sometimes envy those who have been able to save their marriages. For me, my marriage would have kept me from growing and that's what my path was meant to do. You are strong...I'm glad I helped early on and am here still!

Anyone ever had to do post divorce counseling (mediation) with the X? We have to in order to set visitation and support issues. I just cannot talk with him. One day he will be fine and the next he is angry. He'll say one thing and do another. Sad that we need a mediator to make sure all agreements are upheld.

Hope all is well!


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs