fb2..actions speak louder than words...I intend to lead by example when it comes to my daughter. As far as history repeating itself....D8's heart is too big and in the right place..I will do whatever it takes to keep it on track. 50% will require one of us to move closer to the other...at this point neither of us is prepared to do this but we sghall see what the future holds...for the time being (until the end of the school year) it will be status quo.

GF1 I don't know if her grandmother would qualify....she is the only person I can think of. She truly is a saint.