Well, I had a good day today, mostly b/c we were off from school. So, I began my day by successfully getting the mortgage company to admit they screwed up w/ my payment and I wasn't past due. Then I auditioned for an Arizona Lottery commercial and did an hour of cardio at the gym. I ended up going back to the gym and lifting after dinner and then took the dog for a walk. So, it was nice.
Well, on the walk, I called for D and got XW for over 24 minutes of our 29 minute total. She began by telling me "I got asked out by another student today. That makes it now three students as well as two members of the faculty."
WTF? I said I knew who the faculty member was and then said "did you tell them you had a boyfriend?" She went on a bit about it and eventually said, "apparently, I'm just irresistable" to which I deadpanned "apparently" - I had earlier said "good for you" w/ about as much enthusiam.
Anyway, we then talked about Christmas - Thank God the subject changed...maybe it was my lack of interest? It was a needed discussion about D and Christmas stuff - XW did most of the talking. Finally, I got to talk w/ D and we said good night.
Well, the problem is I'm finding myself bothered by the 1st part of the conversation and I'd like to hear what you all think I should/shouldn't do about it.
See, I really bit my tongue when she was talking b/c I wanted to say something very nasty about how her last tryst at work w/ "the Snake" led to her affair and our divorce. Now, I'm not sure if I should ignore it or address it.
Part of me thinks if I address it, I'll be bringing attention to it and letting her know it got my goat a bit. The other part thinks I should tell her something like "You know, I was really uncomfortable hearing about your being hit on at work b/c the last time this happened, you ended up having an affair w/ (the Snake) and he helped influence you to end our marriage. So, in the future, I'd appreciate it if you refrained from telling me these things."
I'd like to say this, but I'm feeling like it would be extremely counter-productive. It would let her know that it bothers me and I'm dead sure that was her intent. She wants me to be jealous and know how much other people "want" her. Thus, I'm guessing it is best to leave it alone.
It still pisses me off however.
Anyway, I'd like to hear your take on it, just to make sure my head is in the right place w/ it.
So, now I'm home and it will be relaxing, doing some laundry, making the bed, watching a little Monday Night Football, and then read before going to bed.
So, I began my day by successfully getting the mortgage company to admit they screwed up w/ my payment and I wasn't past due. Then I auditioned for an Arizona Lottery commercial and did an hour of cardio at the gym. I ended up going back to the gym and lifting after dinner and then took the dog for a walk. So, it was nice.
