Hope, I am so sorry for all you've dealt with from your H. Please don't put blinders on concerning those little calls between H and hay woman. Why would he suddenly come clean on a Holiday about a PA that is over? To throw you off the trail of new ow. I hope I am wrong. I hope you aren't the recipient of any more emotional battering from your H. Find your strength again. (((((((1hope))))))))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.