Just reciprocating and doing my checking on you this time. (((( BobbiJo )))). Slow and steady will get you where you wanna be. As the others have said it may for sure be time to show him to the door. Then again it may not be the best advice for your specific sitch. Our Holy Father will no doubt provide great and much needed assistance for this major decision that you will eventually need to make. Take it to Him. There is no wiser counsel than His. I can certainly recall a few ocassions that you mentioned where the Lord was at work in handling things in your interactions w/ Dan. I am sure there is plenty more of that in store for the future. Just keep letting Him know you need His help. I will be calling upon Him as I do each and every night and asking Him to intervene in Dan's life and get himself rerouted away from his darkness that he may be able to see the real truth provided straightways and paths of Jesus. All things at the appointed and right timing of the Lord.