The L asked me today what the kids did for Thanksgiving and where they went and I told her I don't know. I usually let the kids tell me what they want and I don't ask ?s. Just a did you have fun? and that's about it. So I came home and broke down and asked D9 about their thanksgiving. They spent it at OW's and had Thanksgiving with her. She said she didn't want to tell me because she didn't want to hurt me. D9 is seriously sweet. I'm more worried about her and S15 actually than my feelings. I asked if she spent the whole 4 days at OW's and she said no, just that one day. Karen